Everyone wants to be told the truth, though sometimes it may not be the nicest thing. Recently one of my friends came to me for advice on a guy she had been dating for quite sometime. "He rarely calls me, and when he does call, its seems like he is only hungry for sex" she said. As I shook my head and asked, "how long have you guys been going out, and is he complementing you in positive way?" She sadly replied, "one month and couple days, and we don't really talk, we just have sex most of the time."
I my mind, from what i was hearing, this guy seemed like player. He was simply using my friend as a "fuck box". (someone with no sense whose soul purpose is to just have sex and die)
"Girl, cant you see this dude is using you!? Y'all rarely talk or even been on an official date! You gave it up the second time to meet him, and from what you tell me, he don't want noting from you but your pussy!" My friend gave me a look from hell. She rolled her eyes as hard as she could and walked away. I guessed she could not handle the truth. She seemed extremely upset by what i told her.
My point is this, no one wants to be lied to. If i had encouraged my friend into thinking that this guy was something nice or even worth having, she would still have the mentality that this man was actually trying to be a real man to her. Having me tell her the truth, and potentially opening her eyes could possibly encourager her to see the reality of the situation.
It may hurt, and in some cases it might even make you cry but there is nothing better than the truth. Lies can destroy relationships, and sometimes even families.
In conclusion, try to tell the truth always. Its not always easy to but if you do decide to tell the truth, tell the whole truth or no truth at all.
-Genesis
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